I get frustrated sometimes and am frequently puzzled by the large number of men who are directed to my website and this blog when they enter queries about how to dress, particularly with boots. I follow some of their queries to other websites, such as men’s style blogs and forums, or even “yahoo answers” or “wiki how” — all purportedly filled with expertise about what to wear or not wear, how to dress, and whether or not to wear boots, leather clothing, or boots with suits, khakis, or whatnot.
Why the obsessing? Particularly by men? I know that women obsess over that shit, but guys? Really?
My overall feeling (besides puzzlement and pity), seriously, is relief. Why am I relieved?
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