Boot Mentorship

Mentorship is a personal developmental relationship in which a more experienced or more knowledgeable person helps to guide a less experienced or less knowledgeable person. However, true mentoring is more than just answering occasional questions or providing ad hoc help. It is about an ongoing relationship of learning, dialog, and challenge. The term “mentor” dates back to Greek Mythology but its application continues to this day.

Think about it… we’ve all had mentors in our lives. As we are protégés (students) of someone who has provided guidance, advice, instruction, and support about various aspects of our lives. Parents, teachers, older siblings and family, and supportive friends serve as our mentors.

I was pleasantly surprised by the number of comments on my blog piece about helping my great nephew select his first two pairs of boots. I was equally as disappointed when I asked about boot mentoring on the “Boots on Line” board and got very few responses.

So what is a “boot mentor?” Do guys need one?
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Great Nephew Says: “Boots are Cool!”

One of my great nephews started high school this year, and before he went to school, he asked me to help him find a pair of boots to wear to school. On our shopping adventure, he ended up getting two pairs of boots — one pair of black Chippewa harness boots and a pair of distressed brown Justin regular cowboy boots.

Is he wearing his boots to school? What does he think about them?
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Need 5-Day Weekends

I’ve always thought that “they” (you know, the proverbial powers-that-decide-these-things) that weekends and weeks should be reversed. That is, exchange five days off for two, and only work two days instead of five. How’s that?

Man, IF I had five days for a weekend…
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Cousins 2

Just a quick post to show that not all of my cousins are straight guys who wear flip-flops and shorts to church.

Man, if I were two decades younger, not in a monogamous relationship, and not related, I’d chase this guy. Here he is, participating in an LGBT swimming fundraiser in New York.

Woof! Go cuz, go!

I have to say, though, that I have seen pictures of him on his Facebook page where he is wearing flip-flops while attending a social gathering. So I STILL have work to do on all of my family members, gay or straight! (Remember: boots are preferred footwear; sneakers are okay in a gym, and the only place for flip-flops is in the trash.)

Life is short: love your family.

Back-to-School Boots

I am blessed with a large family. I have many great nephews, one of whom will be starting high school on Monday. Like all kids his age, he insists that he is “his own man” but dresses like a clone. “Just the right” sneakers, jeans, and t-shirts.

He told his grandmother — my sister — the other day that he wanted a pair of boots to wear to school. “Uncle [BHD]’s boots are bad-ass!” (Direct quote). Both his grandma and mother referred him to me. What happened?
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