Sorry, I don’t have much to blog about, nor time to do it.
My partner’s illness has been exhibiting symptoms … sigh. Calming him, reassuring him, taking him to doctors, the pharmacy, and other places for tests takes a lot of time. He had a scare that the treatment he is currently getting caused a blood clot in his leg. We had to get him a sonogram of his leg to determine what was happening. Turned out to be transient, and not a clot. Whew….
They say this disease has a “voice.”
That is, it causes my partner to behave in very strange ways and say things that are, well, bizarre. Not always and not often, but a few times here-and-there. I have to accept that it is not him speaking, but that nasty bug in his system that is defying death with the daily antibiotic treatment that I administer via IV.
He is not that way all the time. He has been able to work on his real job for a few days this past week from home. Working from home is so much better for him, because he does not have an energy-sapping commute to deal with. Of course, then, having him at home all day while I am trying to work (on days that I also work from home) makes things somewhat of a challenge. I tend to get interrupted frequently. He gets annoyed when I get annoyed at having my train-of-thought disrupted. So life goes… we’ll manage. I am much happier that he is safe at home and is able to be productive at his job. That helps boost his self-confidence, which his disease makes fragile.
Meanwhile, we try to continue with daily life. Fun stuff like grocery shopping. Other fun stuff like continuing to work on our kitchen. I have completed about half of the project of laying tile on the floor. I am also beginning to grout it. Soon, even if some parts of the floor are not finished, the main open part will be — so we can return the kitchen table to the kitchen! Joy in small accomplishments!
My work-life is okay; rather mundane but predictable. My community-life is okay, too. I haven’t had as much time to look after my senior pals as I would like, but I am managing to squeeze in the most important activities.
I haven’t ridden my motorcycle in way too long. I just haven’t had time! Drives me nuts… but this too shall improve. I have faith.
Speaking of no time, I have not had any time to update my website… but it is functioning okay. It is, after all, a hobby. Hobbies take a back seat when more important things take precedence.
Anyway, sorry for a non-blog blog post. I’m just busy. Really busy.
Life is short: do what you have to do!
Go out today and ride for 10 minutes. Go around the block. The world won’t fall apart in 10 minutes.
Great suggestion, but…
cold and rainy today… not a day for even a short ride. Soon, though, soon. (I keep saying that :-))