You may have noticed that I updated the photo banner at the top of this blog. Over the years, I have had several different banners. What you see now…

… reflects who I am today:

• a helmet-wearing biker affiliated with a riding club;
• A road captain of that riding club — people actually follow me on occasion;
• a guy who likes to wear boots, full leather, and a helmet while riding his Harley;
• a man who is proud and happy to be married to the love of his life.

For fun, here are some past banners I have used:




By the way, someone asked why I added the words, “monogamously-partnered” a few years ago, our status before we were married. That’s because I was receiving some “statements of interest” from some gay men who just wouldn’t give up, so I had to make my closed relationship more clear. Of course, today, my marital status trumps all of that.

Life is short: keep your blog reflective of who you are!