{"id":9791,"date":"2015-06-06T15:21:13","date_gmt":"2015-06-06T19:21:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=9791"},"modified":"2015-06-06T15:22:02","modified_gmt":"2015-06-06T19:22:02","slug":"romantic-thank-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=9791","title":{"rendered":"Romantic Thank You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Not to be outdone <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=9784\" target=\"_blank\">a dancing bear &#8220;bearing&#8221; flowers<\/a>, when I arrived home from work on Friday, late and kinda tired because I was &#8220;acting boss&#8221; and had a number of things come up unexpectedly, my spouse pulled a surprise&#8230;<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\n&#8230;he greeted me at the door wearing a leather apron and a pair of boots (though he was fully clothed; don&#8217;t get any ideas.)<\/p>\n<p>He gave me a hug and a kiss, then handed me a hand-written card on which he wrote a personal sentiment that made me tear up. It ended with&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>and for all these reasons, these are how much I love how you love me&#8230;.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I was ready to bawl like a baby, but he wasn&#8217;t through.<\/p>\n<p>He led me to our seldom-used formal dining room and showed me that he had set a beautiful table, just for us.  My Mom&#8217;s hand-sewn table cloth, our good silver, my family heirloom china&#8230; the works.  <\/p>\n<p>He sat me down, pulled my boots off, and gave me a t-shirt and shorts to wear, which was very comforting as well as comfortable.  He fixed me a drink (ginger ale over ice), handed me the newspaper, and asked me to read and relax while he prepared dinner.<\/p>\n<p>What?  Spouse cook?  He never cooks.<\/p>\n<p>Well, on Friday, he did.<\/p>\n<p>Spouse grilled two steaks on the barbeque, and had heated up side dishes of potatoes and green beans &#8230; leftovers from all the donated meals my sr. pals gave me when I was laid up with my back problems.<\/p>\n<p>He served the meal in our dining room, held my hand while he said a prayer of thanksgiving, then we ate.<\/p>\n<p>We smiled, laughed, shared love, and lingered over a casual, simple, but enjoyable meal.  Just the two of us.  No fuss, no mess, no pain.  Just love.<\/p>\n<p>Life is short:  show those you love how you love them.  Each and every day.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Not to be outdone a dancing bear &#8220;bearing&#8221; flowers, when I arrived home from work on Friday, late and kinda tired because I was &#8220;acting boss&#8221; and had a number of things come up unexpectedly, my spouse pulled a surprise&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9791","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-home-life","category-partners"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9791","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=9791"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9791\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=9791"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=9791"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=9791"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}