{"id":9646,"date":"2015-04-25T04:00:05","date_gmt":"2015-04-25T08:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=9646"},"modified":"2015-04-24T06:59:44","modified_gmt":"2015-04-24T10:59:44","slug":"a-22-year-journey","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=9646","title":{"rendered":"A 22 Year Journey"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/05\/Us01-300x227.jpg?resize=300%2C227\" alt=\"rp_Us01.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"227\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-8948\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/05\/Us01.jpg?resize=300%2C227&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/05\/Us01.jpg?resize=150%2C113&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/05\/Us01.jpg?w=320&amp;ssl=1 320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>I use the word &#8220;journey&#8221; a lot when I refer to my relationship with my spouse.  Like all couples, we have had our joyous times, our down times, our travelin&#8217; times, our comfy-at-home times, our happy times, our sad times, our best-friendiest times, our angry times, our in-sync times, our not-so-in-sync times, our healthy times, and our not healthy times.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever times we have had over the past 22 years since we met in that fateful date (April 25, 1993), I can honestly say&#8230;<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\n&#8230; that the journey has been quite a learning experience of growth for both of us. Neither of us imagined when we met 22 years ago that we would &#8230;<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/Houseblog.jpg?resize=300%2C194\" alt=\"Houseblog\" width=\"300\" height=\"194\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-6890\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/Houseblog.jpg?w=300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/Houseblog.jpg?resize=150%2C97&amp;ssl=1 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>&#8230; build our own &#8220;forever&#8221; house in the sprawling &#8216;burbs where I grew up.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230; travel throughout the U.S. and the world when we were younger and could do it.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230; ride cross-country and locally over 25,000 miles two-up on a Harley.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230; marry.  Legally.  In our home state.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230; intertwine our legal relationship as only married couples can do with the full rights granted by federal and state law.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230; go through hell caring for one another with <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=758\" target=\"_blank\">broken limbs<\/a>, surgical procedures, and long-term illness.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230; remain as deeply in love 22 years later as we fell in love with each other within our first year of our relationship.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/Handsrings01-230x300.jpg?resize=230%2C300\" alt=\"Handsrings01\" width=\"230\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-4536\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/Handsrings01.jpg?resize=230%2C300&amp;ssl=1 230w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/Handsrings01.jpg?resize=300%2C391&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/Handsrings01.jpg?resize=115%2C150&amp;ssl=1 115w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/Handsrings01.jpg?w=478&amp;ssl=1 478w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 230px) 100vw, 230px\" \/>As we said in our marriage vows,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I, [name], take you, [name], to be my partner on our life\u2019s journey. I promise to stand with you in celebration and sadness, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health. I pledge my love, devotion, faith, and honor to you for now and evermore.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&#8230; it truly is a life journey.  We have come a long way and we have a long way to go, but we know in our hearts that our journey is ours to make, and we boldly continue, together.<\/p>\n<p>Happy &#8220;when we met anniversary&#8221; to my beloved spouse.  I think if we&#8217;ve made it this far, we&#8217;ll make it &#8230; well &#8230; forever.  &#8217;til death do us part.<\/p>\n<p>Life is short:  show those you love how you love them.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I use the word &#8220;journey&#8221; a lot when I refer to my relationship with my spouse. 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