{"id":7761,"date":"2014-08-27T04:57:12","date_gmt":"2014-08-27T08:57:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=7761"},"modified":"2014-08-27T06:53:28","modified_gmt":"2014-08-27T10:53:28","slug":"somebody-to-do-nothing-with","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=7761","title":{"rendered":"Somebody To Do Nothing With"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Yesterday afternoon as I was relaxing with my spouse after a long hard day, I was seated next to him in our backyard gazebo, holding his hand, listening to the water flow in the waterfall in our pond, and doing nothing else.  <\/p>\n<p>I thought to myself,<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\n&#8220;isn&#8217;t this perfect&#8230;,&#8221; and continued to relax and did not think much more&#8230; about anything.  I just chilled.<\/p>\n<p>Later in the evening, we were watching some TV drivel, and one of the characters whose wife had recently divorced him said, &#8220;I have a million people to do things with, but no one to do nothing with.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>That statement struck me as somewhat profound.<\/p>\n<p>I turned to my spouse and said, &#8220;you know, he&#8217;s right.  I have a lot of friends and an active, busy life.  But what means most to me is that I have you.  Just like today &#8212; someone to do nothing with if that&#8217;s what I want to do (or not do).&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>My spouse smiled at me, held my hand a little tighter, and said, &#8220;me, too, my love.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Life is short:  cherish your moments together with the one you love.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yesterday afternoon as I was relaxing with my spouse after a long hard day, I was seated next to him in our backyard gazebo, holding his hand, listening to the water flow in the waterfall in our pond, and doing &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=7761\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7761","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-partners"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7761","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7761"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7761\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7761"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7761"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7761"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}