{"id":59,"date":"2008-04-11T10:34:00","date_gmt":"2008-04-11T14:34:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=59"},"modified":"2008-04-11T10:34:00","modified_gmt":"2008-04-11T14:34:00","slug":"small-town-feeling-in-rambling-burbs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=59","title":{"rendered":"Small town feeling in rambling &#8216;burbs"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family:verdana;\">I live in a rather densely populated suburban area.  I live in a county and there really aren&#8217;t that many incorporated cities, towns, or &#8216;burgs where I live.  Thus, I&#8217;m just part of the rambling sprawl that typically happens outside the core of any major city anywhere in the world.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve blogged before about having friends who I have met on-line, but I haven&#8217;t mentioned the friends I grew up with.  You see, even though I live in a sprawling suburban area where anonymity is more the rule than the exception, I still keep in touch with many dozen friends I have known since I was a kid.  Many of them settled right here, and now have families of their own.  I&#8217;ve also maintained close friendships with some people with whom I went to college and served together on campus activities.  In adulthood, I expanded my network of friends through all of the community activism that I do, boards on which I serve, people I help out from time to time in a neighboring retirement community, and other activities.<\/p>\n<p>Being one person in a county with almost 1,000,000 residents can seem daunting, distant, and make one feel isolated.  However in my case, that really isn&#8217;t the story.  I know hundreds of people.  I see them on the street, in local stores, and while I&#8217;m riding my Harley.  A friendly wave, a phone call, an email, &#8230; they&#8217;re there, I&#8217;m there, and we&#8217;re in this together.  I feel that my large sprawling community is much like a small town in many ways with the degree in which we&#8217;re connected.<\/p>\n<p>I am truly blessed by having many friends &#8212; some for as long as 47 years, and many for as long as 40 years, avg (and I&#8217;m &#8220;only&#8221; 50).  Much like friendships that develop in small towns.  People you know and remain close to for a long, long time.  What a treasure.<\/p>\n<p>Life is short:  wear your boots.  Love your friends.<br \/><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I live in a rather densely populated suburban area. I live in a county and there really aren&#8217;t that many incorporated cities, towns, or &#8216;burgs where I live. Thus, I&#8217;m just part of the rambling sprawl that typically happens outside &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=59\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[24,4,23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-59","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-best-friends","category-home-life","category-joy"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=59"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=59"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=59"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=59"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}