{"id":585,"date":"2009-10-24T04:00:00","date_gmt":"2009-10-24T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=585"},"modified":"2016-02-28T09:19:01","modified_gmt":"2016-02-28T14:19:01","slug":"afraid-of-looking-gay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=585","title":{"rendered":"Afraid of &quot;Looking Gay&quot;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family:verdana;\">Like a lot of people, I surf the internet and use Google as my guide.  Sometimes I find the most amusing writings posted on various forums.<\/p>\n<p>Most internet forums allow people to go by anonymous screen names, so they say a lot of things without fearing that people will know who they really are.  But what they say reveals more about who they are than their name.<\/p>\n<p><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_yytsDp42pSs\/SuIqWNvyuNI\/AAAAAAAABwM\/m8vUab5K-Gg\/s1600-h\/Greychaps32.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 241px;\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_yytsDp42pSs\/SuIqWNvyuNI\/AAAAAAAABwM\/m8vUab5K-Gg\/s400\/Greychaps32.jpg?w=584\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5395921864678881490\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>Among the biker community, there are a lot of people who express some form of fear that by being seen wearing a certain type of motorcycle clothing (chaps, for example), or having a particular brand shown on the clothing implies that one is gay.  So they use a slur &#8220;that&#8217;s gay&#8221; to associate their negative opinion.  Here is a cut from one such forum:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I see a lot of people on here who are more worried about being considered a &#8220;HARDCORE&#8221; biker, instead of just riding and enjoying life.  These same guys absolutely won&#8217;t ride ANYTHING else except a Harley, yet claim they won&#8217;t wear anything Harley, cause then you look gay and are a billboard for the brand.  Content Source<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>What is it about straight guys who make blatent statements such as &#8220;wearing a Harley-branded jacket <i>looks gay<\/i>?&#8221;  I guess it&#8217;s alright to wear Harley T-shirts; man, there are zillions of them and bikers (even riders of other brands of motorcycles) wear them.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll tell you what it is about straight guys who make such statements:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>They are insecure.<\/li>\n<li>They are immature.<\/li>\n<li>They are afraid of what they don&#8217;t know (gay people)<\/li>\n<li>They reveal that they sit on whatever brains they have.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I was also going to say that they are young, but unfortunately I have read or heard such statements by people older than I am, and who should have matured by now and know better.<\/p>\n<p><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_yytsDp42pSs\/SuIsN1H3bWI\/AAAAAAAABwU\/JTvFQswcCgg\/s1600-h\/Protek05.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 110px; height: 320px;\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_yytsDp42pSs\/SuIsN1H3bWI\/AAAAAAAABwU\/JTvFQswcCgg\/s320\/Protek05.jpg?w=584\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5395923919653268834\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>I do not own much Harley-branded gear, but that&#8217;s because I have found alternatives that have a better value for the price paid.  I have taken time to get measured for and buy top-quality, custom-made leathers that fit me well.  Most Harley-branded gear is overpriced for the name.  A lot of it is made in China, where quality control is suspect.  I tell &#8216;ya, leather fetish stores like Mr. S., 665Leather, or Northbound have surpassed leather-for-the-masses retailers like The Motor Company (Harley) in producing superb, functional, and good-looking gear.  After all, I <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bootedman.com\/gear\/\">own and wear a lot of leather gear<\/a> so I know what I&#8217;m talking about.<\/p>\n<p>As the original author of the post I quoted above began his statement, there seem to be a lot of people on internet forums who are much more concerned about portraying the image of a &#8220;hardcore biker&#8221; than by just getting out and riding to enjoy life.  There are stereotypes that they have been brainwashed to believe that, to them, implies that the &#8220;tough-guy bad-ass biker image&#8221; (a &#8220;hardcore biker&#8221;) is the opposite of &#8220;gay.&#8221;  By extension, these are some who believe that it is not possible that some bikers can be &#8220;homosexual.&#8221; (oooohhh, &#8220;that&#8221; word!)<\/p>\n<p>I have said before and I will say again:  Bikers can be gay and gay men <u>and women<\/u> can be bikers, as the two are not mutually exclusive.<\/p>\n<p>Ignorant and fearful forum posters should get over it, and get a life.  Get out and ride, and enjoy it.  That is what it is all about.<\/p>\n<p>Life is short:  ride and have fun!<br \/><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Like a lot of people, I surf the internet and use Google as my guide. Sometimes I find the most amusing writings posted on various forums. 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