{"id":545,"date":"2009-09-14T04:00:00","date_gmt":"2009-09-14T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=545"},"modified":"2009-09-14T04:00:00","modified_gmt":"2009-09-14T08:00:00","slug":"mentor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=545","title":{"rendered":"Mentor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_yytsDp42pSs\/SqwwifHynRI\/AAAAAAAABpM\/bOTn5B_3Dm0\/s1600-h\/Maude2.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 179px; height: 209px;\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_yytsDp42pSs\/SqwwifHynRI\/AAAAAAAABpM\/bOTn5B_3Dm0\/s320\/Maude2.jpg?w=584\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5380729023828761874\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><span style=\"font-family:verdana;\">Here&#8217;s a photo of me with a woman who took me under her wing back in the 70s, and taught me everything she knew about working as a volunteer leader in a major non-profit organization.<\/p>\n<p>She always was kind and thoughtful, and has a sense of humor that kept me rolling.  Thorough and precise in her work, she taught me where to look for information and how to help clients in a genuine and case-specific manner.  I was amazed at how quickly she could cut through the b\/s and find the answers to challenging questions, and come up with creative resolutions to many situations.<\/p>\n<p>We became fast friends, and served together on the Board of Directors of this organization for about 15 years.  As friends, she and I went hot air ballooning, where upon a bad landing she broke her leg but said that she loved the experience.  She watched me skydive often, and had she not had a doctor tell her that she couldn&#8217;t go with me, I think she would have.<\/p>\n<p><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_yytsDp42pSs\/Sqwz7RiSqUI\/AAAAAAAABpU\/q6S5gcLuEr8\/s1600-h\/Maude1.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 159px; height: 235px;\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_yytsDp42pSs\/Sqwz7RiSqUI\/AAAAAAAABpU\/q6S5gcLuEr8\/s320\/Maude1.jpg?w=584\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5380732748213430594\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>What we didn&#8217;t tell the doc about was the number of times that she got on the back of my Harley and went for a (short) ride.  We always laugh about that.  When I accompany her somewhere, which nowadays is pretty much reserved to the dining room in her retirement home, her friends always ask, &#8220;is he the guy who took you on his Harley?&#8221;  In boots and leather, I smile back and say, &#8220;yep, that&#8217;s me.  Do you want a ride?&#8221;  The aghast reaction is amusing to watch, especially when my mentor says, &#8220;you ought to try it &#8212; he doesn&#8217;t drop people off the back any more.&#8221;   (giggle)<\/p>\n<p>My partner and I spent a wonderful day this past Saturday visiting my friend, my mentor.  He adores her and I enjoy watching the two of them interact, laugh, and smile.<\/p>\n<p>Life is short:  show those you love that you love them.<br \/><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s a photo of me with a woman who took me under her wing back in the 70s, and taught me everything she knew about working as a volunteer leader in a major non-profit organization. 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