{"id":4702,"date":"2013-05-02T04:00:11","date_gmt":"2013-05-02T08:00:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=4702"},"modified":"2013-05-01T13:06:14","modified_gmt":"2013-05-01T17:06:14","slug":"nightlife-of-married-gay-guys","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=4702","title":{"rendered":"Weeknights of Married Gay Guys"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My spouse and I are&#8230; ahem&#8230; &#8220;middle aged&#8221; codgers. Having been together more than 20 years, our idea of nightlife includes&#8230;<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\nPreparing a home-cooked meal which we now eat much earlier &#8212; about 5:00pm (1700).  I arrive home from work about 3:45, so it is easy for me to prepare a meal and have it on the table by five.<\/p>\n<p>After the thrill of dinner and cleaning up is over, sometimes I go to a community meeting, but most of the time these days, I do not have a meeting to attend so I look forward to staying home with my spouse.<\/p>\n<p>We go down to our basement, which I finished as a project with my spouse about ten years ago.  We may watch TV, or at my request &#8212; since I do not really care for television and its blathering brain-dead stuff &#8212; we read to each other. <\/p>\n<p>Yeah&#8230; books.  In print.  On paper.  With a binding.  Who woulda thunk?<\/p>\n<p>No tablet, e-reader, or computer.  Real, honest-to-goodness books.<\/p>\n<p>My spouse is an avid reader of history, and I enjoy that too, along with biographies, science, and good mystery novels.  <\/p>\n<p>Last night, for example, my spouse read aloud several pages of a book he was reading about (former U.S.) President Lyndon Johnson.  He then had a discussion with me about what he thought about the excerpt.  We had a great give-and-take dialogue.<\/p>\n<p>I followed by reading an excerpt from a biography of Giulio Andreotti, a man who held the office of Prime Minister of Italy three times.  Sr. Andreotti is an interesting character.  I translated the section that I read into English as I was reading from the Italian.  Then my spouse and I had an interesting conversation as well.  <\/p>\n<p>As night was drawing to a close, I pulled out a favorite book written by James Michner, titled &#8220;Chesapeake.&#8221;  This book offers a historical picture of life in Maryland from times of early Native American settlement in the 1500s until the 1970s by following families, their lives, and livelihoods.  What I selected, however, was a piece from &#8220;Voyage 8&#8221; (8th Chapter) about &#8220;Onk Or,&#8221; a goose and his mate.  The chapter explains about how geese mate for life and makes you think like geese.  It was a very moving, well-written, bedtime story.<\/p>\n<p>With the closing of the book, we made our way to bed at our usual 8:30 (2030).  4am (0400) comes much earlier now, and we need our sleep &#8212; especially me since I am still working!<\/p>\n<p>Life is short:  enjoy reading to each other instead of mind-numbing television or other media.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My spouse and I are&#8230; ahem&#8230; &#8220;middle aged&#8221; codgers. Having been together more than 20 years, our idea of nightlife includes&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4702","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-home-life","category-partners"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4702","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4702"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4702\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4702"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4702"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4702"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}