{"id":222,"date":"2008-11-10T09:02:00","date_gmt":"2008-11-10T13:02:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=222"},"modified":"2008-11-10T09:02:00","modified_gmt":"2008-11-10T13:02:00","slug":"movin-on","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=222","title":{"rendered":"Movin&#8217; On"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family:verdana;\">A note for readers of this blog and my website:  I have removed some pictures from my website and about a dozen blog posts for a reason that I do not wish to say publicly.  It&#8217;s difficult for all involved.  I am torn between my firm belief in the right to free speech and expression (which includes non-risqu\u00e9 photographs) but also in not engaging in actions that bother puritans.<\/p>\n<p>I figure that the person who started the whole thing is from way beyond where I live and has nothing better to do but to act as a &#8220;net nanny,&#8221; which resulted in pressure on people I know to communicate their displeasure with a few photos on my website which displayed an appreciation for a group.  I am learning that the group&#8217;s national administrators do not want to acknowledge that a gay man can be an out and open part of the group for fear of harming their &#8220;brand&#8221;.   Poppycock.<\/p>\n<p>I anticipate that those who are involved with this matter are reading this blog, and this message will assure them that the actions have been completed as requested &#8212; and thoroughly (as best as I can determine).  While I removed those photos because they asked, the more I thought about this censorship, the more I <u>wanted<\/u> to disassociate myself from endorsing the group.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve decided that as a result of this situation (and this decision has been reaffirmed through discussions with my partner and my 8th brother), to return to activities for which I joined the group (that complained about the photos) and not pursue more active participation.  I have plenty of other things to do than let this stuff annoy me.<\/p>\n<p>Now, let&#8217;s move on to more happy subjects!<\/p>\n<p>Three days &#8217;til my partner&#8217;s birthday!  Since his special day is in the middle of the upcoming week, when I have less time to work in the kitchen, I spent a lot of time yesterday preparing him his favorite meal:  home made manicotti, raised yeast rolls, a well-balanced salad, and from-scratch, lemon meringue pie.  I had the pleasure of treating him to a fine meal last night.  I also gave him his birthday present early &#8212; a new LCD monitor for his computer &#8212; so he could enjoy using it while he is off work today and tomorrow.<\/p>\n<p>What was funny is that he said that the best &#8220;treat&#8221; I gave to him was taking his old CRT monitor to the e-waste receiving facility for disposition.  He can&#8217;t stand having junk around the house!  I have him to thank for not having a house and garage full of stuff that we&#8217;ll never use.  His rule:  volume in = volume out.  And he enforces it!<\/p>\n<p>Just seeing him smile with his treasures and treats made it all worthwhile.  He brings many smiles to my face each and every day, so I am glad that I can begin his &#8220;birthday week&#8221; so well.  Happy birthday, il mio amore!<br \/><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A note for readers of this blog and my website: I have removed some pictures from my website and about a dozen blog posts for a reason that I do not wish to say publicly. 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