{"id":17412,"date":"2025-02-01T15:42:08","date_gmt":"2025-02-01T20:42:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=17412"},"modified":"2025-02-01T21:07:08","modified_gmt":"2025-02-02T02:07:08","slug":"winter-2024-2025-update","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=17412","title":{"rendered":"Winter 2024\/2025 Update"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Bothofthem.jpg?resize=281%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"281\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-17413\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Bothofthem.jpg?resize=281%2C300&amp;ssl=1 281w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Bothofthem.jpg?resize=800%2C854&amp;ssl=1 800w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Bothofthem.jpg?resize=141%2C150&amp;ssl=1 141w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Bothofthem.jpg?resize=768%2C820&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Bothofthem.jpg?w=1124&amp;ssl=1 1124w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 281px) 100vw, 281px\" \/>Hey there&#8230; long time since I&#8217;ve written a blog here. I appreciate encouragement from a loyal long-time reader to write an update.<\/p>\n<p>Since I last posted, I began enjoying being a citizen of Canada. <\/p>\n<p>Immediately on hearing the tragic results of the 2024 U.S. Presidential election, I went back to my Canadian home in Southern Ontario to figure out next steps in my life.<\/p>\n<p>Since I am retired, I can travel freely and stay as long as I want outside the oUS (once-united states.) I say &#8220;once&#8221; because I clearly remember in my younger days, the U.S. was united, or more united, than it became during the first term of the self-centered egomaniac asshat who got re-elected when the oUS lost its ever-lovin&#8217; mind on November 5, 2024.<\/p>\n<p>Now, division, extreme hatefulness, and negativity rule the day.<\/p>\n<p>I escaped to a country that is&#8230;<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\n<img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Moosie.jpg?resize=300%2C253&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"253\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-17414\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Moosie.jpg?resize=300%2C253&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Moosie.jpg?resize=150%2C126&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Moosie.jpg?resize=356%2C300&amp;ssl=1 356w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Moosie.jpg?w=400&amp;ssl=1 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>&#8230; more civil, kind, and appreciates the mosiac approach to inclusiveness.  Instead of the assimilation or melting-pot theory, Canada recognises and values that each person represents his or her ethnicity and contributions to society.<\/p>\n<p>I did a lot of soul searching. Why am I doing this? Was it my dream or my husband&#8217;s dream? <\/p>\n<p>Should I abandon my home and community just because an asshole will become President?<\/p>\n<p>After speaking with friends and family, I came to the conclusion that I had to return to the oUS to support my neighbors who are in peril.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Uactivityblog.jpg?resize=300%2C281&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"281\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-17421\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Uactivityblog.jpg?resize=300%2C281&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Uactivityblog.jpg?resize=150%2C141&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Uactivityblog.jpg?resize=320%2C300&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Uactivityblog.jpg?w=400&amp;ssl=1 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>I returned to the oUS in early December and enjoyed activities in the community that I love and who love me back.<\/p>\n<p>Not the gay or LGBTQ+ community per se, but my home&#8230; home where my heart is. Where I know thousands of people. Where my life is.<\/p>\n<p>Then I took a break to restore my soul. <\/p>\n<p>As I have done since my husband died, I went to Puerto Rico from mid-December to mid-January. I have a dear friend who gives me her home to stay in while she and her husband travel elsewhere for the holidays. Her home is on the west side of the island &#8212; what I call the &#8220;more authentic Puerto Rico.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/PRphotographer24.jpg?resize=294%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"294\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-17416\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/PRphotographer24.jpg?resize=294%2C300&amp;ssl=1 294w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/PRphotographer24.jpg?resize=147%2C150&amp;ssl=1 147w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/PRphotographer24.jpg?w=392&amp;ssl=1 392w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 294px) 100vw, 294px\" \/>I had a restful and relaxing time with many friends who live there. I stayed for a whole month this time.<\/p>\n<p>I swam in the Caribbean Sea bay where I scattered my husband&#8217;s ashes and reconnected with his spirit.<\/p>\n<p>I did some photography. I had many meals with friends and enjoyed great food.  I chillaxed.  I slept peacefully with the coquis singing softly.<\/p>\n<p>On return stateside in mid-January, the destruction was beginning. I put myself into a news blackout.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/NickIceTrip3_400.jpg?resize=300%2C209&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"209\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-17417\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/NickIceTrip3_400.jpg?resize=300%2C209&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/NickIceTrip3_400.jpg?resize=150%2C105&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/NickIceTrip3_400.jpg?w=400&amp;ssl=1 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>A few days before the Coronation of the King (of damage &#038; destruction), I flew back to Canada and went on a bucket-list photo adventure of a lifetime in Northern Alberta.<\/p>\n<p>Man &#8212; walking on a frozen lake and see wonders of clear ice with frozen ice bubbles was outstanding!<\/p>\n<p>I then flew back to my home in Ontario for a couple weeks.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Schotttruckerblog.jpg?resize=184%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"184\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-17418\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Schotttruckerblog.jpg?resize=184%2C300&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Schotttruckerblog.jpg?resize=92%2C150&amp;ssl=1 92w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Schotttruckerblog.jpg?w=245&amp;ssl=1 245w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 184px) 100vw, 184px\" \/>Then, regretfully, I returned to the oUS to begin fulfilling my calling to protect my neighbours. I can&#8217;t or won&#8217;t say exactly what I am doing, but let&#8217;s say that I am known, trusted, am fluent in Spanish, and am well-positioned to help.<\/p>\n<p>While volunteering to support my community consumes some amount of time, I&#8217;ve been enjoying time at home with my hobby of still maintaining <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bootedman.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">my website<\/a>. <\/p>\n<p>For just fun and pleasure, my clothing options vary from <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/gear\/fetish\/\" target=\"_blank\">full fetish leather<\/a> to <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/dress\/notboots\/shoessuit.html\" target=\"_blank\">suits &#038; ties<\/a>. Footwear varies from <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/dress\/notboots\/\" target=\"_blank\">dress shoes<\/a> to <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/cowboy\/\" target=\"_blank\">cowboy boots<\/a> (particularly <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/cowboy\/rujoboots.html\" target=\"_blank\">Rujo Boots<\/a>). <\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/PEBrandochocolatesuitedblog.jpg?resize=100%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"100\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-17419\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/PEBrandochocolatesuitedblog.jpg?resize=100%2C300&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/PEBrandochocolatesuitedblog.jpg?resize=50%2C150&amp;ssl=1 50w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/PEBrandochocolatesuitedblog.jpg?w=117&amp;ssl=1 117w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 100px) 100vw, 100px\" \/>I seldom wear tall boots any more, as they just don&#8217;t fit me. I&#8217;m liking shorter footwear for comfort in my older age.<\/p>\n<p>I am quite disillusioned with what the oUS has become. Hate-filled, hurtful, and bound to destroy diversity, equity, and inclusion.<\/p>\n<p>Not me &#8212; I cherish those values even more. The Asshole can go to hell where he&#8217;s driven what was left of the country I once proudly served in the military and as a civilian for my entire working career.<\/p>\n<p>Any questions where I stand and in what I am standing in?<\/p>\n<p>Life is short: hold your values, protect your neighbours, and #Resist!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey there&#8230; long time since I&#8217;ve written a blog here. I appreciate encouragement from a loyal long-time reader to write an update. Since I last posted, I began enjoying being a citizen of Canada. 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