{"id":17289,"date":"2024-03-24T17:53:40","date_gmt":"2024-03-24T21:53:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=17289"},"modified":"2024-03-24T18:50:41","modified_gmt":"2024-03-24T22:50:41","slug":"blog-update","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=17289","title":{"rendered":"Blog Update"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/MTbluebespoke21.jpg?resize=108%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"108\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-17188\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/MTbluebespoke21.jpg?resize=108%2C300&amp;ssl=1 108w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/MTbluebespoke21.jpg?resize=54%2C150&amp;ssl=1 54w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/MTbluebespoke21.jpg?w=252&amp;ssl=1 252w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 108px) 100vw, 108px\" \/>Since I changed my <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">&#8220;Booted Harleydude&#8221; website<\/a> on March 1, 2024, to &#8220;Rick&#8217;s website (aka &#8220;BHD&#8221;) A Gay Guy Into Boots, Leather, Shoes, and Suits&#8221; along with its header image and home page images too, I thought it was appropriate to change the image header and statement of this blog to: <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>BHD&#8217;s Musings: the life and times of Rick aka &#8220;BHD&#8221; <br \/>An average former biker, gay leatherman, bootman, shoe &#038; suitman, &#8216;burbs living guy&#8221; <\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p> &#8230; so the transition will be complete.<\/p>\n<p>As I said <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=17226\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">on this blog when<\/a> I made the decision to &#8230;<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\n&#8230; &#8220;rebrand&#8221; my website and this blog as the &#8220;new me&#8221; since my re-emergence into a new life after I retired, lost my husband, and sold my Harley. My fetish interests have changed somewhat as well.<\/p>\n<p>I remain the same guy, just older and adjusted to a comfortable life alone. <\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/BHDR591a.jpg?resize=114%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"114\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-17284\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/BHDR591a.jpg?resize=114%2C300&amp;ssl=1 114w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/BHDR591a.jpg?resize=57%2C150&amp;ssl=1 57w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/BHDR591a.jpg?w=190&amp;ssl=1 190w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 114px) 100vw, 114px\" \/>I enjoy being retired.  I do not enjoy being reluctantly single since I lost my husband, but am getting used to it.<\/p>\n<p>I do not like that I am not a biker any more since I sold my Harley.  But life is change.<\/p>\n<p>My fetish interests have expanded beyond <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/gear\/fetish\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">leather<\/a> (which I still wear occasionally) and boots (my first passion remains <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/cowboy\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">cowboy boots<\/a>) to enjoying wearing <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/dress\/notboots\/shoessuit.html\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">business suits<\/a> &#8217;cause they&#8217;re comfortable along with <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/dress\/notboots\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">dress shoes<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Note &#8212; banner image above shows me wearing <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/dress\/notboots\/suitboots.html\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">suits with cowboy boots<\/a> (left) and <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/dress\/notboots\/shoessuit.html\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">suits with dress shoes<\/a> (middle), then I still enjoy wearing <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/cowboy\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">cowboy clothing &#038; boots<\/a>, and from time to time, <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/gear\/fetish\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">leather<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/cycle\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">motorcycle boots<\/a> too.  <\/p>\n<p>Regular updates to my website are made often &#8212; see the <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/gen\/whatsnew.html\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">&#8220;what&#8217;s new&#8221; page<\/a> for details.<\/p>\n<p>This update is honest.  It&#8217;s me.  <\/p>\n<p>I have grown, not abandoned, my former self, but have grown to enjoy living a &#8220;fully-out&#8221; freedom that is truly me.<\/p>\n<p>Like it or not, Rick, BHD, Booted (former) Harleydude, Suited Man, Marlboroman, whatever&#8230; I&#8217;m older, mature, and have nothing to hide.<\/p>\n<p>Life is short:  embrace your own freedom and be the man you are.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Since I changed my &#8220;Booted Harleydude&#8221; website on March 1, 2024, to &#8220;Rick&#8217;s website (aka &#8220;BHD&#8221;) A Gay Guy Into Boots, Leather, Shoes, and Suits&#8221; along with its header image and home page images too, I thought it was appropriate &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=17289\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[26,63,62,17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17289","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blogging","category-dress-shoes","category-suits","category-website"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17289","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=17289"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17289\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=17289"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=17289"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=17289"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}