{"id":17041,"date":"2023-04-12T05:14:58","date_gmt":"2023-04-12T09:14:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=17041"},"modified":"2023-07-20T16:45:55","modified_gmt":"2023-07-20T20:45:55","slug":"i-used-to-call-them-dorky","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=17041","title":{"rendered":"I Used to Call Them Dorky"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/PEoxbloodcaptoe08.jpg?resize=300%2C209&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"209\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-17042\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/PEoxbloodcaptoe08.jpg?resize=300%2C209&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/PEoxbloodcaptoe08.jpg?resize=150%2C104&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/PEoxbloodcaptoe08.jpg?resize=768%2C535&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/PEoxbloodcaptoe08.jpg?resize=431%2C300&amp;ssl=1 431w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/PEoxbloodcaptoe08.jpg?w=800&amp;ssl=1 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>Okay, if you haven&#8217;t notice by now, I have become quite the dress shoe guy.  On reading this blog over the years, I would comment that dress shoes were &#8220;dorky.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>Well, I have grown up.<\/p>\n<p>Some dress shoes actually look quite nice.  Especially with a suit, or jeans, or leather. I wear shoes with all of that.<\/p>\n<p>Why the change?<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\n<img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Yorktown23.jpg?resize=300%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-17043\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Yorktown23.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Yorktown23.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Yorktown23.jpg?resize=301%2C300&amp;ssl=1 301w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Yorktown23.jpg?w=602&amp;ssl=1 602w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>In 2017, I bought my <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/dress\/notboots\/yorktown.html\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">first pair of dress shoes<\/a> when I found myself in an Allen Edmonds store looking for dress boots.  They didn&#8217;t have the boots I was looking for in my size. The sales guy suggested that I try on a pair of discontinued dress shoes that were quite a bargain.<\/p>\n<p>I bought them, and after a while, I realized they weren&#8217;t so bad after all.<\/p>\n<p>They were comfortable and again, like my boots, no one noticed. I was the only one who seemed to have a hang-up.<\/p>\n<p>Thus I slowly began to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bootedman.com\/dress\/notboots\/index.php\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">build a dress shoe collection<\/a>.  <\/p>\n<p>I became fascinated with the different styles and colors.  Wingtips, cap toes, wholecuts, brogues &#8212; I found I liked oxfords over other styles (derbies, for example), and later developed a preference for leather soles (instead of Dainite) so I could hear myself walking in them.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/BBnavysuit250.jpg?resize=111%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"111\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-17030\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/BBnavysuit250.jpg?resize=111%2C300&amp;ssl=1 111w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/BBnavysuit250.jpg?resize=55%2C150&amp;ssl=1 55w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/BBnavysuit250.jpg?w=258&amp;ssl=1 258w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 111px) 100vw, 111px\" \/>In <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bootedman.com\/gen\/shoes2021.html\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">2021, I applied dress shoe retail therapy<\/a> while grieving the loss of my husband.  My dress shoe collection expanded enormously that year.  <\/p>\n<p>Also in 2021, I got a <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/dress\/notboots\/bbnavysuit.html\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">well-fitted tailored suit<\/a> since I needed one for a dressy event that I had to attend, and did not own any suits anymore.  Subsequently, my <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/dress\/notboots\/shoessuit.html\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">suit wardrobe<\/a> has grown a bit too.<\/p>\n<p>As of the date of this post, I have bought, worn, and enjoyed over 144 pairs of dress shoes, and the collection continues to expand as I learn about other quality shoemakers and get myself more shoes to try out and <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/dress\/notboots\/shoessuit.html\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">enjoy with my suits<\/a> or just wear when I am not on my Harley.<\/p>\n<p>My preferences?  While <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/dress\/allenedmondscatalog.html\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Allen Edmonds shoes<\/a> compose about half of my dress shoe collection, I also have shoes from many other makers. <\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/PEblackcaptoe16.jpg?resize=212%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"212\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-17044\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/PEblackcaptoe16.jpg?resize=212%2C300&amp;ssl=1 212w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/PEblackcaptoe16.jpg?resize=106%2C150&amp;ssl=1 106w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/PEblackcaptoe16.jpg?w=423&amp;ssl=1 423w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 212px) 100vw, 212px\" \/>I like formal, dressy, English shoes from Barker, Charles Tyrwhitt, and Loake. These are super-well-made and comfortable.<\/p>\n<p>I have found <a href=\"https:\/\/bootedman.com\/dress\/notboots\/paulevansshoes.html\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">shoes by Paul Evans<\/a> to be among the most classy (and sexy!) <\/p>\n<p>Paul Evans shoes are made in Italy, so I also have bought other quality shoes made there, too.  <\/p>\n<p>Who friggin&#8217; cares if I&#8217;ve become a shoe guy?<\/p>\n<p>This post is a &#8220;coming out of the closet&#8221; message &#8212; where the closet was my reticence to admit: I like dress shoes too!<\/p>\n<p>Life is short:  enjoy living with new interests to complement your lifestyle and preferences.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Okay, if you haven&#8217;t notice by now, I have become quite the dress shoe guy. On reading this blog over the years, I would comment that dress shoes were &#8220;dorky.&#8221; Well, I have grown up. Some dress shoes actually look &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=17041\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[63],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17041","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dress-shoes"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17041","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=17041"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17041\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=17041"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=17041"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=17041"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}