{"id":158,"date":"2008-08-23T09:14:00","date_gmt":"2008-08-23T13:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=158"},"modified":"2008-08-23T09:14:00","modified_gmt":"2008-08-23T13:14:00","slug":"the-importance-of-touch","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=158","title":{"rendered":"The Importance of Touch"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_yytsDp42pSs\/SLANPXj9vwI\/AAAAAAAAAoI\/F9SjbD5qvzI\/s1600-h\/GuysHoldingHands.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 183px; height: 285px;\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_yytsDp42pSs\/SLANPXj9vwI\/AAAAAAAAAoI\/F9SjbD5qvzI\/s320\/GuysHoldingHands.jpg?w=584\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5237700924305948418\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><span style=\"font-family:verdana;\">This photo is not my partner and me, but it could be.  We both believe in the intimate feeling of touch.  When we greet, it&#8217;s through touch, often including a full bear hug embrace.  When we sit near one another, our hands intertwine, naturally.  Heck, I&#8217;ll even play &#8220;bootsie&#8221; (that&#8217;s &#8220;footsie&#8221; but since I always wear boots, I have adjusted the term.)<\/p>\n<p>Saturday morning is my favorite time of the whole week.  We don&#8217;t have to rush to do anything (usually), and this time of year when I have a summer recess, I don&#8217;t have to run out to meetings or public hearings first thing in the morning.<\/p>\n<p>As dawn awakens us naturally, my partner and I just lay next to one another in bed and watch the sun&#8217;s glow light up the trees.  We feel each other&#8217;s touch, from shoulder to toe.  Often, we just lay there holding one another without saying a word.  This is incredibly important to both of us.  It is a way we continue to show our love for one another, and to enjoy each other&#8217;s warmth and tenderness.<\/p>\n<p>How blessed I am to have a man who enjoys cuddling as much as I do.  A man who shares his deepest thoughts and ideas during these times, when we have quiet but often future-shaping conversations.  But most of all, I appreciate that I have a man who values the importance of touch.  Our touch with one another often expresses more than words can ever convey.<\/p>\n<p>Next time you see someone you care about, greet him or her warmly with an embrace, the touch of a two-handed handshake, and a big smile.  Life is short:  show those you love that you love &#8217;em.<br \/><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This photo is not my partner and me, but it could be. We both believe in the intimate feeling of touch. When we greet, it&#8217;s through touch, often including a full bear hug embrace. When we sit near one another, &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=158\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-158","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-partners"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/158","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=158"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/158\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=158"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=158"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=158"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}