{"id":14564,"date":"2019-02-03T09:41:37","date_gmt":"2019-02-03T14:41:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=14564"},"modified":"2019-02-03T09:41:37","modified_gmt":"2019-02-03T14:41:37","slug":"home-is-where-the-love-is","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=14564","title":{"rendered":"Home Is Where the Love Is"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I had a long week while on business travel in Southern California this week.  In fact, the work was packed more intensely for me due to my travel being shortened by the idiot&#8217;s shutdown.<\/p>\n<p>I was working 12-hour-plus days.  I enjoy what I do and the people I work with, but it&#8217;s exhausting.  I would get to my room after dinner with colleagues, and&#8230;<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\n&#8230;undress and get to bed, each night by 2000 (8pm).  I would sleep until about 0300, then rise, exercise by taking a swim in the hotel pool &#8212; at that hour, there are no observers to watch you.  As bad a swimmer (or dog paddler) I am, I don&#8217;t like to be watched.  <\/p>\n<p>But an hour of exercise each morning helped circulate the ol&#8217; blood and make me feel more energized to take on the day.  After a shower, I would dress and begin work in my room, then work at meetings in the hotel.<\/p>\n<p>The people I work with at these meetings rallied to support me, knowing how deflated I was about the recent disaster imposed by the Idiot-In-Chief.  They know, really know, how to show their love.  I appreciate that.<\/p>\n<p>But I have to admit, what I loved the most was the love I got when I arrived home.<\/p>\n<p>My beloved Spouse greeted me at the door, took my bag, and gave me a warm welcoming hug. Then he turned to point out that he had made dinner.  Wow!  What a delight &#8212; I didn&#8217;t have to jump into cooking dinner right away after a long day of travel.<\/p>\n<p>We relaxed a while after dinner, and I was so tired, I fell asleep in his arms.  Instead of jabbing me and saying, &#8220;it&#8217;s took early to go to bed!&#8221; (as he usually does), he let me sleep softly, feeling all warm and loved.<\/p>\n<p>I do not remember when he guided me to bed, but I awoke in the middle of the night and discovered that I was in bed and somehow had changed (or been changed) into shorts and t-shirt that I wear when I sleep.<\/p>\n<p>I slept long and awoke quite late (for me)&#8230; about 4am Pacific Time, which was 7am at home.<\/p>\n<p>I heard a noise &#8212; the Spouse was just completing the second load of laundry.  He washed everything that I wore this past week.<\/p>\n<p>On top of that, when he realized that I was awake, he opened the door, greeted me warmly, and brought me a tray of a nice breakfast.  <\/p>\n<p>I am truly blessed to have a man I can love and who loves me all the more.  Nice to be home.  <\/p>\n<p>I will be busy later doing things for him.  I have meals to prepare, treats to bake, and other catch-up chores to do.  Anything to avoid that stupor bowl hype.  With jet lag, I&#8217;ll probably be in bed by 7pm tonight anyway.<\/p>\n<p>Life is short:  show those you love how you love them.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I had a long week while on business travel in Southern California this week. In fact, the work was packed more intensely for me due to my travel being shortened by the idiot&#8217;s shutdown. I was working 12-hour-plus days. 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