{"id":13571,"date":"2018-01-21T06:27:08","date_gmt":"2018-01-21T11:27:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=13571"},"modified":"2018-01-21T09:29:42","modified_gmt":"2018-01-21T14:29:42","slug":"riding-freedom-and-a-cops-support","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=13571","title":{"rendered":"Riding Freedom (and a Cop&#8217;s Support)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Rideblog20180120b-253x300.jpg?resize=253%2C300\" alt=\"\" width=\"253\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-13574\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Rideblog20180120b.jpg?resize=253%2C300&amp;ssl=1 253w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Rideblog20180120b.jpg?resize=300%2C356&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Rideblog20180120b.jpg?resize=127%2C150&amp;ssl=1 127w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Rideblog20180120b.jpg?w=675&amp;ssl=1 675w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 253px) 100vw, 253px\" \/>I awoke Saturday, January 20, to horrible news that befell my country at midnight Friday due to people who are supposed to represent us failing to do their jobs.  I will not turn this post political, but let&#8217;s say the DIC and his cronies are being dicks and my country suffers further at the cost of $138 million\/day.  Also, January 20 is the one-year anniversary of the disaster whose terror has proven true rang in my memory, too.  <\/p>\n<p>On top of that, The Spouse has not been well and caregiving takes its toll.  <\/p>\n<p>Thankfully, we were blessed with&#8230;<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\n&#8230;a brightly sunny Saturday that was unusually warm (60F \/ 15.5C) for January in the Mid-Atlantic.  So with the Spouse&#8217;s okay (and encouragement), I checked my Harley sideways from Sunday.  It was in great shape having been stored for so long in the back of my garage.  A little air in the tires and it was good to go.<\/p>\n<p>I donned full leather, including <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bootedman.com\/gear\/langlitzpocket.html\" target=\"_blank\">my Langlitz Columbia jacket<\/a>, leather jeans, and (of course) <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bootedman.com\/cycle\/chipfire.html\" target=\"_blank\">Chippewa firefighter boots<\/a>, and got out for &#8220;head-clearing&#8221; ride.  It seems like every time I am on my motorcycle, the freedom of the open road is calming and comforting.  My cares, even for a little while, melt away.<\/p>\n<p>As typical of me, though, I usually have a purpose when I ride.  This time it was to run an errand.  I rode to a leather repair shop quite a distance away to have a zipper sewn in to a Mr S leather shirt.  Snaps kept popping open when I wore it and I was having trouble wearing it when riding my Harley without the snaps opening by themselves.<\/p>\n<p>I parked my Harley in front of the leather shop, dismounted, put my helmet and gloves in the TourPak, grabbed the leather shirt, and walked in.  I remarked that I had been there a couple weeks ago to have some patches sewn on a vest and noticed that they had long zippers.  &#8220;Could you sew a zipper inside this shirt? The snaps don&#8217;t hold tight enough so they keep opening when I wear it while riding.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Sure, we can do that.&#8221;  So the process began.<\/p>\n<p>The proprietor of the shop is rather gruff and ultra-straight.  He noticed the Mr S label in the shirt, and started making comments about where it came from and what &#8220;those dudes who wear this stuff&#8221; do. <\/p>\n<p>Then he began looking at me &#8212; I have seen that expression before. He was asking himself, &#8220;is this guy gay?&#8221;  He saw the ring on my left hand and my Harley parked outside his shop&#8217;s door, but he began wondering.  I could see it in his glances and expressions, as well as looking for reactions from me as he made crude remarks about &#8220;gay boys.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The situation was growing increasingly uncomfortable.  I didn&#8217;t want to make a scene, but this guy was clearly prejudiced against gay men, especially gay men who like to wear leather.<\/p>\n<p>I had half a mind to grab the shirt and leave, but right about then, a motorcop entered the shop (not in uniform, but was wearing his jacket with insignia patches on it).  The proprietor was asked him what he needed (repair of a torn leather vest.)<\/p>\n<p>The cop then noticed me standing there, smiled, and said, &#8220;hi, [BHD]. How ya&#8217; doin&#8217;?  Congratulations on [being elected to a ranking position in my motorcycle club].&#8221;  I smiled back and said, &#8220;thanks. How is your son enjoying marching band?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>This cop is a friend of mine.  I have gone riding with him on occasion, and have judged his skill during police motorcycle riding competitions.  I knew about his son&#8217;s activities from (where else) &#8212; social media postings.<\/p>\n<p>As the shop&#8217;s proprietor watched our friendly greeting, his reaction was &#8230; &#8220;interesting.&#8221;  His attitude about me suddenly changed. He became respectful and stopped making snide and insulting comments.  <\/p>\n<p>As my buddy (cop) and I chatted, the proprietor completed the work on my Mr S shirt, and even tried it on to demonstrate that the zipper worked and the front lined up correctly.  I was very pleased with the results.<\/p>\n<p>What made the end of this story funny is that when I asked what the bill was, the proprietor said, &#8220;I&#8217;ll give you the police discount &#8212; how about $20?&#8221;  <\/p>\n<p>Fine. I pulled out my wallet, gave him a $20, took my shirt and said thanks.  <\/p>\n<p>After my cop buddy gave his vest to the shop owner to work on, we chatted a little while longer, and I had an opportunity to thank him for a rescue about which he was not aware.  My friend just rolled his eyes and said, &#8220;some people never learn. Have a good day.&#8221;  <\/p>\n<p>I put my leather shirt in my Harley&#8217;s TourPak, strapped on my helmet, pulled on the gloves, mounted my bike, and waved goodbye.  My friend waved back.<\/p>\n<p>Life is short:  sometimes there IS a cop around when you need one  (smile.)<img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Rideblog20180120a.jpg?resize=563%2C800\" alt=\"\" width=\"563\" height=\"800\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-13575\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Rideblog20180120a.jpg?w=563&amp;ssl=1 563w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Rideblog20180120a.jpg?resize=300%2C426&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Rideblog20180120a.jpg?resize=106%2C150&amp;ssl=1 106w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/Rideblog20180120a.jpg?resize=211%2C300&amp;ssl=1 211w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 563px) 100vw, 563px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I awoke Saturday, January 20, to horrible news that befell my country at midnight Friday due to people who are supposed to represent us failing to do their jobs. 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