{"id":12698,"date":"2017-05-12T06:30:09","date_gmt":"2017-05-12T10:30:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=12698"},"modified":"2017-05-12T06:30:42","modified_gmt":"2017-05-12T10:30:42","slug":"finding-time-to-relax","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=12698","title":{"rendered":"Finding Time To Relax"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/taz5.jpg?resize=118%2C159\" alt=\"\" width=\"118\" height=\"159\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-3099\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/taz5.jpg?w=118&amp;ssl=1 118w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/taz5.jpg?resize=111%2C150&amp;ssl=1 111w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 118px) 100vw, 118px\" \/>My twin brother has always referred to me as &#8220;Taz,&#8221; short for the Tasmanian Devil made famous in old Looney Tunes cartoons.  I tend to be rushing around from here to there in my daily life&#8217;s activities with working full-time, volunteering in the community, serving on boards and committees and work groups.  This week alone, I had four meetings after work.  But on a very pleasant, dry, bug-free and meeting-free Wednesday evening, I took the Spouse into our back yard and &#8230;<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\n<img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/Frogblog-300x187.jpg?resize=300%2C187\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"187\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-5919\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/Frogblog.jpg?resize=300%2C187&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/Frogblog.jpg?resize=150%2C93&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/Frogblog.jpg?w=400&amp;ssl=1 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>&#8230; sat with him next to the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bootedman.com\/path\/waterfall.html\" target=\"_blank\">pond that I built for him (us)<\/a>, held his hand, and just enjoyed the evening.  Listening to birds chirp, laughing at the squirrels jumping from tree to tree and chasing each other, watching a family of deer with three young fawns, and observing beady eyes of frogs peering at us from under lily pads in the pond&#8230; ahhhh, we were at peace in our little part of heaven.<\/p>\n<p>We talked about anything and everything.  My spouse is so smart and well-read.  I love having conversations with him because I learn so much and we share the same outlook on life and values.  While we may go about accomplishing tasks differently where he is sequential and I am a multi-tasker, when it comes down to it, spending time with the Spouse, holding his hand, and relaxing together is the best way to affirm our bonds of love for one another.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Pondspouse-300x225.jpg?resize=300%2C225\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-5460\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Pondspouse.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Pondspouse.jpg?resize=150%2C112&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Pondspouse.jpg?resize=401%2C300&amp;ssl=1 401w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/Pondspouse.jpg?w=720&amp;ssl=1 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>At some points during this rare and lovely evening, we did not say a word.  We held hands and listened to nature around us.  The frogs snatching insects; the birds calling to each other; the squirrels literally laughing as they were playing.  Noise from the surrounding hustle\/bustle roadways was imperceptible.  The babbling of a stream at the end of the property and the splashing of water in the pond was soothing.  <\/p>\n<p>I let my troubles of this week&#8217;s world melt away.  For a few hours, we had peace and contentment, joy and love.  Heaven in our own back yard.<\/p>\n<p>Life is short:  refresh with relaxation.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My twin brother has always referred to me as &#8220;Taz,&#8221; short for the Tasmanian Devil made famous in old Looney Tunes cartoons. 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