{"id":12675,"date":"2017-05-07T05:58:14","date_gmt":"2017-05-07T09:58:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=12675"},"modified":"2017-05-07T15:49:45","modified_gmt":"2017-05-07T19:49:45","slug":"what-the-spouse-does-all-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=12675","title":{"rendered":"What The Spouse Does All Day"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As most readers of this blog know, my spouse retired after a 40-year career in January, 2013.  Together, we got him through a very rough patch of severe infection in his immediate post-retirement.<\/p>\n<p>But every day, he says, &#8220;please go to work.&#8221; He wants me to continue working, not only because I enjoy my job, but because he wants the house to himself all day.<\/p>\n<p>So what does he do all day while I am gone?  Wild parties?  Visits by his many friends?<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\n&#8230;naaahhh&#8230; none of that.  The spouse is the world&#8217;s #1 antisocial recluse.  He avoids anything social, and has no friends (other than me.)<\/p>\n<p>He does, however, put his &#8220;alone time&#8221; to great use.  He enrolled in our state university to pursue a second bachelor&#8217;s degree in History.  His coursework is entirely on-line.  That&#8217;s good because due to residual effects of his past long-term illness, he cannot drive and could not get himself to a brick-and-mortar campus, nor would want to.<\/p>\n<p>Why pursue a second bachelor&#8217;s degree?  Because he has always been interested in history and wanted to study it through the academic rigor that university-level education presents.<\/p>\n<p>So far, he is 3\/4 complete toward the degree.  He has earned an &#8220;A&#8221; in every course he has taken.  When he graduates, he will receive top honors.  I am so very proud of him.<\/p>\n<p>No wonder he wants me out of the house all day &#8212; so it is quiet for him to study.  I get it.<\/p>\n<p>Life is short:  pursue your academic goals and be rewarded with honors for excellent work.<img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/UMUCSpring2017-800x367.jpg?resize=584%2C268\" alt=\"\" width=\"584\" height=\"268\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-12676\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/UMUCSpring2017.jpg?resize=800%2C367&amp;ssl=1 800w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/UMUCSpring2017.jpg?resize=300%2C138&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/UMUCSpring2017.jpg?resize=150%2C69&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/UMUCSpring2017.jpg?resize=768%2C353&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/UMUCSpring2017.jpg?resize=500%2C230&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/UMUCSpring2017.jpg?w=1004&amp;ssl=1 1004w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 584px) 100vw, 584px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As most readers of this blog know, my spouse retired after a 40-year career in January, 2013. 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