{"id":1195,"date":"2011-06-14T16:45:00","date_gmt":"2011-06-14T20:45:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=1195"},"modified":"2013-09-17T11:25:03","modified_gmt":"2013-09-17T15:25:03","slug":"caring-for-the-one-i-love-redux","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=1195","title":{"rendered":"Caring for the One I Love Redux"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m having trouble keeping up with email and tons of love shown on Facebook, so let me give a quick update:  my partner&#8217;s initial diagnosis indicates a non-cancerous brain tumor.  We meet with a neurosurgeon next week to determine next steps, which probably means surgery.<\/p>\n<p>I am looking on the bright side:  it&#8217;s not cancer, and he is not in pain. In fact, he asked for some of my famous homemade chicken soup for dinner &#8212; a recipe that one of our family&#8217;s favorite uncles was well-known for.  <\/p>\n<p>The hospital staff and physicians were very good to both of us. While we have legal paperwork in place so that I could formally advocate for him if I had to, we didn&#8217;t have to produce that.  They treated me as his spouse and consulted with me that way.<\/p>\n<p>More to come&#8230; but pardon me for a break, as I&#8217;m caring for the one I love. Each minute is precious.<\/p>\n<p>Remember: life is short &#8230; show those you love that you love them.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m having trouble keeping up with email and tons of love shown on Facebook, so let me give a quick update: my partner&#8217;s initial diagnosis indicates a non-cancerous brain tumor. We meet with a neurosurgeon next week to determine next &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=1195\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[43,13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1195","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ld","category-partners"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1195","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1195"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1195\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1195"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1195"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1195"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}