{"id":1133,"date":"2011-04-09T04:00:00","date_gmt":"2011-04-09T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=1133"},"modified":"2011-04-09T04:00:00","modified_gmt":"2011-04-09T08:00:00","slug":"bloggetory-commentary","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=1133","title":{"rendered":"Bloggetory Commentary"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;\">Some people have commented to me, privately by email, that they noticed that I had two guest blog posts from straight men in a row on this blog, owned and (mostly) written by a gay guy.<\/p>\n<p>My point all along has been that I am really no different from anyone else, gay or straight.  I am a man who cares for his partner, family, and community; works hard in a professional position and enjoys his work; likes to ride his Harley and regrets not having enough time to ride as much as he would like; wears leather garments that he has invested in over the years; and likes boots (and has a rather large collection.)  Some guys collect stamps. I collect (and wear) boots. <\/p>\n<p>I most sincerely appreciate the guest blog posts that I have received and posted on behalf of two men with whom I have communicated about boots, about motorcycling, about life, and about similar interests.  I have also posted <a href=\"http:\/\/bootedharleydude.blogspot.com\/search\/label\/Twin%20Brother\">dozens of blog entries<\/a> from my (straight) twin brother, as well as several guest posts from some other straight guys, <a href=\"http:\/\/bootedharleydude.blogspot.com\/2010\/10\/boots-and-breeches-looking-good-on.html\">here<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/bootedharleydude.blogspot.com\/2011\/01\/observations-from-frye-boot-fan.html\">here<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/bootedharleydude.blogspot.com\/2011\/01\/frye-ography.html\">here<\/a>, and <a href=\"http:\/\/bootedharleydude.blogspot.com\/2010\/08\/guest-blog-straight-guy-and-leather_20.html\">here<\/a>.  And not to leave anyone out, collaborated on a post with a gay man, <a href=\"http:\/\/bootedharleydude.blogspot.com\/2011\/03\/marriage-is-postponed.html\">here<\/a>, and posted one from a gay cop, <a href=\"http:\/\/bootedharleydude.blogspot.com\/2010\/09\/coming-out.html\">here<\/a>.  Just goes to show two things:  1) I look forward to receiving and posting guest blog features that relate to themes of this blog (boots, leather, gay\/straight relationships, motorcycling, caring for others).  Also 2) gay guys and straight guys aren&#8217;t that different &#8212; the only major difference is the sex of the partner we have.  No.big.deal.<\/p>\n<p>If you haven&#8217;t read the comments on these recent blog posts, you should. The comments commend this blog for not going into the gutter with porn-type writing, images, and such.  I keep this blog G-rated for a reason.  It is a public blog.  If you want that kind of stuff, you know where to find it. The internet is full of it.<\/p>\n<p>What my partner and I do behind closed doors is our business &#8212; sorta like what my siblings do with their opposite-sex spouses is their business, respectively.  We are adults in monogamous relationships.  That&#8217;s it; &#8216;nuf said.<\/p>\n<p>We all can get along just fine in this world where we have common ground.  We really aren&#8217;t all that different, but it IS the differences that we each have that makes life interesting.  Gosh, life would be awfully boring if we were all the same.<\/p>\n<p>Life is short:  enjoy solid relationships with good people. Sexual orientation has absolutely nothing to do with it.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Some people have commented to me, privately by email, that they noticed that I had two guest blog posts from straight men in a row on this blog, owned and (mostly) written by a gay guy. 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