{"id":1104,"date":"2011-03-11T05:00:00","date_gmt":"2011-03-11T09:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=1104"},"modified":"2016-05-11T07:49:44","modified_gmt":"2016-05-11T11:49:44","slug":"what-is-wrong-with-regular-old-email","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=1104","title":{"rendered":"What Is Wrong With Regular Old Email?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;\">I registered Booted Harleydude on several websites years ago.  Some of them (Recon, for example) have internal message systems.  That is, you can send another member of the site a message.  Then it requires the person to log on to the site to read it.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, most of these sites do not notify the recipient that a message is waiting.  The only exception is Blogger (host of this blog) and YouTube. Both of those systems are owned by Google, and both send a message via direct email to let me know that a comment is ready to be reviewed and approved, or a message is waiting.<\/p>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lh5.googleusercontent.com\/-lKRP2uoMZJA\/TXVXquolXRI\/AAAAAAAAC0c\/Bq19F5zX8V8\/s1600\/Recon1.jpg?ssl=1\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"257\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lh5.googleusercontent.com\/-lKRP2uoMZJA\/TXVXquolXRI\/AAAAAAAAC0c\/Bq19F5zX8V8\/s400\/Recon1.jpg?resize=400%2C257&#038;ssl=1\" width=\"400\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>I say very clearly on my Recon and other profiles that I do not check their sites every day.  In fact, I probably only check them once a month.  The reason why I registered BHD on those sites is to preserve my screen name.  So contrary to what Recon says &#8220;the world&#8217;s largest hook-up site for men into fetish gear&#8221; &#8212; I did not join that site to &#8220;hook up&#8221; with anyone, but to share and see others in gear that I enjoy wearing and using on a regular basis (and to keep nefarious scoundrels from committing cyber-identity theft.)<\/p>\n<p>Well, anyway, lately I have received some messages, such as:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Send me a text and let&#8217;s skype<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Let&#8217;s chat. What&#8217;s your IM name?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Meet me in the chat room.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>I have some questions about [brand] of boots<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Here are some answers for &#8216;ya&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>1.  I don&#8217;t text and I don&#8217;t Skype.  Sorry, but I&#8217;m not into texting and have even blocked that feature from my cell phone so I don&#8217;t have to pay for data that I do not use.  Skype is interesting, but again, I do not use it and don&#8217;t see why I should.  I communicate with my twin brother in France via this funny old thing called a &#8220;hard-wired telephone.&#8221;  I know what he looks like.  I don&#8217;t need video to add to it.<\/p>\n<p>2.  Gosh, I am <u>really<\/u> old-fashioned, as I do not use instant messaging at all, nor do I have time to visit chat rooms.  I tried I.M., and was annoyed with it popping up during my work day.  I did not want that distraction while I was working.  I do not use the computer much when I am off the clock (except, perhaps, to post on this blog! LOL!) and when I am composing a blog message, I do not want to be distracted by I.M.  Contrary to what some may think, I have a life and a lot of my life does not involve using a computer or surfing the net or exchanging messages with other people.  I know that sounds harsh, but I&#8217;m an old fart so forgive me.  (This is another way of saying that I took I.M. off my computer and do not use it.)<\/p>\n<p>3.  Chat rooms?  They are ubiquitous now. There&#8217;s &#8220;boot chat&#8221; on hotboots.com and many others on all these various forums.  Chatting on-line requires time &#8212; that I simply don&#8217;t have. Or don&#8217;t want to spend on it. My partner asked once, &#8220;don&#8217;t you want to talk with me?&#8221; He&#8217;s right &#8212; he is my main &#8220;chatterer&#8221; and focus of my attention. If I spent time chatting on-line and not with him, it gives a mixed message that I don&#8217;t want to give. Plus, honestly, I really do not have the time.<\/p>\n<p>4.  If you have questions for me about boots or leather, why put such questions into a tiny little text box in an on-line program&#8217;s communication box?  Wouldn&#8217;t it be easier if you sent me an email and we could exchange messages?  Honestly, I don&#8217;t get it&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>This all boils down to my asking again, &#8220;what&#8217;s wrong with regular old email?&#8221;  Am I just so old-fashioned that I am communicating with the proverbial tin can and a string?  <\/p>\n<p>Just wondering&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p><i>Addendum: someone sent me an email recently and I replied. I received a response two days later advising me that my email went into his spam folder. I suggest that if you send me a message via my website or this blog, to make sure that you &#8216;whitelist&#8217; the domain bootedman.com so email from me will reach you without being screened as possible spam.  I do not know why that happens, and it seems to happen inconsistently with various email systems &#8212; Comcast email being the worst.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Life is short:  communicate via methods that work for the person with whom you are communicating.<br \/><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I registered Booted Harleydude on several websites years ago. Some of them (Recon, for example) have internal message systems. That is, you can send another member of the site a message. 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