{"id":1091,"date":"2011-02-27T05:00:00","date_gmt":"2011-02-27T09:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=1091"},"modified":"2011-02-27T05:00:00","modified_gmt":"2011-02-27T09:00:00","slug":"back-to-reality","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=1091","title":{"rendered":"Back to Reality"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;\">My brief visit to a warm, tropical island is over.&nbsp; My return home was uneventful, but (as usual), delayed.&nbsp; And by a new-to-me reason:&nbsp; the gate from which my connecting flight was to take off had been set up for international flights, and they had not set it back to handle a domestic flight, so my flight was a half-hour late in taking off.&nbsp; Oh brother&#8230; gotta love it, or go nuts otherwise.<\/p>\n<p>I rolled in the door at midnight on Friday night, and found my partner waiting up for me.&nbsp; We crawled into bed and dropped into deep slumber.&nbsp; We didn&#8217;t awake until quite late &#8212; 7:30am &#8212; almost two hours later than usual!&nbsp; We snuggled closely, held one another, and caught up with each other.<\/p>\n<p>My partner told me that during my absence, our State Senate passed a bill to make it legal for same-sex couples to get married.&nbsp; The bill is now before our state&#8217;s House of Delegates, and is expected to pass.&nbsp; However, there will be more political fall-de-rall by the conservative negative noodles, so we haven&#8217;t won &#8230; yet.&nbsp; More work to do. (I didn&#8217;t have the heart to tell him that I already knew, having read about it from various emails and updates on Facebook and such.)<\/p>\n<p>I rose, showered and dressed (in leather and boots again, yippie!)&#8230; and prepared a big breakfast.&nbsp; Then I went about attending to the needs of my senior pals.&nbsp; We had fun shopping, visiting, and allowing me to make some repairs in their homes of things like a leaky faucet and a broken door hinge.<\/p>\n<p>I came home to have lunch with my partner.  After lunch, my partner and I went to my aunt&#8217;s condo to finish cleaning it out.&nbsp; It didn&#8217;t take too long &#8230; and now after a final trip to the dump, the place is all empty.  It echoes like the hole in my heart.  While I miss my aunt, I know that I did all that I could to make her last years safe and happy, as best they could be considering her frail health and Alzheimer&#8217;s condition.<\/p>\n<p>I prepared a great dinner of fresh fish, then afterwords, the evening found me snuggled again with my partner.&nbsp; We listened to the piano and relaxed, holding each other close. Reunions are so sweet in the arms of the man I love.<\/p>\n<p>Life is short:&nbsp; enjoy every minute!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My brief visit to a warm, tropical island is over.&nbsp; My return home was uneventful, but (as usual), delayed.&nbsp; And by a new-to-me reason:&nbsp; the gate from which my connecting flight was to take off had been set up for &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/?p=1091\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1091","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-partners"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1091","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1091"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1091\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1091"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1091"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bootedmanblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1091"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}